Monday, April 4, 2011

My Baby Is 7

And I'm feeling it.

This is the last one. No more for me.

And I'm one of the lucky ones as I've stretched this mom thing out for years -- 6 years between the first two, 10 years between the second and third.

And I really did want to adopt one more from China. But hubs said he was done. So, done it is. (Which is even harder when someone else gets their new referral info the day before my baby's birthday. Go TM!!!!! So excited for you!!!!!!)

And this weekend we celebrated Mouses 7th birthday. She eats pizza now and requested Chuck E. Cheese. (I thought I was done with that place!) So off the four of us went to the strange smelling kid mecca of games and noise.

And that was after an overnight with 70 girls at a Children's Museum. Sleeping on a concrete floor. With children that would not go to sleep. Or stop running up and down the stairs. You really never realize just how well your Girl Scout Troop behaves until you combine with others for something. And ear plugs? Worth their weight in gold.

For Mouses cake she wanted Kim Possible. Leave it to my kid to come up with a character that was popular 10 years ago. And all I can say is hat's off to Eba*.
Of course Mouse loved it so much she kept tracing it through the plastic and totally destroyed the top of the cake before pictures or eating. But, being a third child, we just shrugged and moved on. LOL. I would have been so mad with the first child...and maybe even the second. But she saw it was what she wanted and its not like it tastes any different all scraped onto the top instead of pristine. So, whatever. Oh - and Jamie....the jam layer in there? It was great. The teen even commented on it.

And my little 7 year old? She has changed so much in this last year that I don't even think her nickname fits her anymore. She is just like many other kids her age now.

Do you know how shocking and amazing that is?????? I am pinching myself. She talks on the phone to people. She eats more foods and can be convinced to try something without throwing up all over the place or gagging. She interfaces well with other kids and adults as often as not now. She pulled her first card at school. She has put together her own little cheerleading team in our back yard...complete with cheers she made up and taught the other kids. She doesn't listen. She breaks the rules. She yells and gets loud.

She's finally FINALLy....so normal. (Which isn't to say she is totally normal...no kid is...which makes her normal. )

And I think I'm just a little bit shell shocked by it all.

Because I just don't know how I feel about all of this.

6 comments:

  1. Your last line sums it up so well! I fight with the conflicting emotions of loving seeing them grow up and hating it at the same time!
    The party sounds fun. And there is so much comfort in being an experienced mom and not getting upset about ruined cakes, etc.

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  2. Woohoo! Congrats on pulling a card! And all the other strides she has made this year!


    I think she has grown into her blog name quite well... Mighty Mouse was always getting into trouble. Check this out... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GYpBoYa4pno


    Happy Birthday, Mighty Mouse!

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  3. Awe happy birthday to Mouse!

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  4. Happy Birthday, Mouse!! May your year be filled with crazy joy and ginormo blessings!

    And it's so great to see progress with the little Chinese nuggets - I have a few in my life and I celebrate with their mom when she finds evidence of normalcy and adjustment. I would never claim to understand what it's like for these sweet kids, but I sure do root for each and every one of them!

    XOXO!

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  5. Aw- I'm sorry I was out of blog world this week. Happy late birthday to the (not so little anymore) Mighty Mouse! I love the cake - I was a big fan of Kim Possible too, and jam in the middle sounds fabulous.

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  6. Woohoo! Congrats on pulling a card! And all the other strides she has made this year!


    I think she has grown into her blog name quite well... Mighty Mouse was always getting into trouble. Check this out... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GYpBoYa4pno


    Happy Birthday, Mighty Mouse!

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